The Big One
January 11, 2025
People always thought The Big One — the thing that was going to destroy California — was going to be an earthquake. Turns out, it was a fire.

I’ve learned about urban conflagrations v. wildfires, and finally learned what it means when they say a fire is, say, 10% contained (which is to say, contained v. out).
Everyone’s bracing for more Santa Ana winds in the next few days.
The Closer We Get..
January 10, 2025
.. the greater the despair.
I’ve read some real humdingers today: numerous articles about the LA fires, the unfathomable destruction, the blame game (launched by youknowwho). A few articles about today’s sentencing of the president-elect, first felon president. An article about the state of our economy under our outgoing president, an amazing gift to the incoming guy. An analysis of what should comprise a healthy resistance, and how the incoming admin will work to undermine and weaken those institutions (education, nonprofits, media, organized labor).
All of my reading today contained some foreboding language about what’s to come with trump in control of it all. We will steel ourselves to his childish vindictiveness, his ire, his blame shifting, his undue credit claiming, or just his default: casually lying about absolutely everything. Combined with the power he’s amassed, we are going to be living in a true nightmare.
I’m not sure what to do. Again. Staying informed comes at a great cost. I’m agitated and scared all over again.
Good Bye to a Great Man
January 9, 2025
Jimmy Carter died on December 29 at age 100. Today was the memorial (one of many) at the National Cathedral. It was extraordinary and moving, and a reminder of how incredibly decent and principled and forward thinking Carter was. He always placed country above politics, to his personal detriment. Though he was a one-term-only president, he leaves a beautiful legacy. The heartfelt eulogies were yet another reminder of how incomprehensible this moment is, that a majority of this country is a-ok with the incoming amoral, criminal, insurrection-fomenting, conman guy.
And wow, what a screen shot… five US presidents in one place, plus four former vice presidents (Dan Quayle is out of the frame) and assorted spouses. One was definitely not like the others.

Heather captures the sentiments well, especially the tensions roiling in the Presidents’ Club:
Family members, friends, and political leaders gathered today at the Washington National Cathedral to honor the life of former president Jimmy Carter, who died on December 29 at age 100. All five living presidents and most of their wives attended: George W. Bush and Laura Bush were there, along with Bill Clinton and former secretary of state Hillary Clinton, Barack Obama, Donald Trump and Melania Trump, and Joe Biden and Dr. Jill Biden.
Trump’s former vice president Mike Pence and his wife, Karen, were also there, meeting Trump for the first time since January 6, 2021, when Trump tweeted to the rioters attacking the U.S. Capitol that Pence “didn’t have the courage to do what should have been done to protect our Country and our Constitution,” redoubling the crowd’s fury and sparking chants of “Hang Mike Pence.”
Pence shook Trump’s hand; his wife stayed seated, looking straight ahead. While Obama, sitting next to Trump, spoke to him, former president Bush refused to acknowledge Trump, instead walking past him and giving a familiar greeting to Obama.
By virtue of living to age 100, Carter survived many of his contemporaries, and some left behind eulogies for him. Carter’s vice president, Walter Mondale, died in 2021 but recorded his memories of working with Carter in the White House from 1977 to 1981. His son Ted Mondale read the eulogy at today’s service.
Mondale recalled how he and Carter had redefined the role of the vice president of the United States, which had fallen into eclipse when President George Washington shut his own vice president, John Adams, out of his central circle of advisors and never recovered. Mondale recalled that Carter had honored his wish to change that pattern by becoming a full partner in the administration. Carter conferred with him regularly, put him in charge of certain central issues, and the two men became close friends.
Mondale also remembered that Carter was farsighted, ignoring short-term political interests to protect the next generations from harm. He tried to put the nation on a path that would find alternatives to fossil fuels, and did his best to advance women’s rights. He pushed for a law to extend the time for states to approve the Equal Rights Amendment to the Constitution to make women’s equality part of the nation’s fundamental law, and he appointed women to positions in his administration and the federal judiciary. Mondale noted that Carter “appointed five times as many women to the federal bench as all of his predecessors combined.”
Mondale recalled Carter’s “extraordinary years of principled and decent leadership, [and] his courageous commitment to civil rights and human rights.” He recalled that toward the end of their time in the White House, in the years immediately after the tumultuous years of President Richard Nixon, with his covert bombing of Cambodia and cover-up of the Watergate break-in, the two men were summing up their administration. The sentence they came up with was: “We told the truth, we obeyed the law, and we kept the peace.”
President Gerald Ford also left behind a eulogy for Carter, who had defeated Ford’s reelection attempt in 1976. Despite their political differences, the two men had become friends in 1981 when they traveled to and from the funeral of Egyptian president Anwar Sadat, who along with Israel’s Menachem Begin had signed the 1978 Camp David Accords negotiated by Carter’s administration that established a framework for a peace treaty between Israel and Egypt. Over time, Ford and Carter became close friends and agreed to deliver eulogies for each other.
Carter fulfilled his promise in 2006, and today Ford’s son Steve fulfilled his father’s.
Ford spoke to Carter’s deep faith in God when he noted that the former president “pursued brotherhood across boundaries of nationhood, across boundaries of tradition, across boundaries of caste. In America’s urban neighborhoods and in rural villages around the world, he reminded us that Christ had been a carpenter.” “I’m looking forward to our reunion,” Ford concluded. “We have much to catch up on. Thank you, Mr. President. Welcome home, old friend.”
Carter’s grandson Jason Carter, chair of the Carter Center’s board of trustees and a former Georgia state senator, emphasized Carter’s integrity: his grandfather’s political convictions reflected his private beliefs. “As governor of Georgia half a century ago, he preached an end to racial discrimination and an end to mass incarceration. As president in the 1970s…he protected more land than any other president in history…. He was a climate warrior who pushed for a world where we conserved energy, limited emissions, and traded our reliance on fossil fuels for expanded renewable sources. By the way, he cut the deficit, wanted to decriminalize marijuana, deregulated so many industries that he gave us cheap flights and…craft beer. Basically, all of those years ago, he was the first millennial. And he could make great playlists.”
Jason Carter called his grandfather’s life a “love story, about love for his fellow humans and about living out the commandment to love your neighbor as yourself.” He highlighted his grandfather’s work to bring cases of Guinea worm disease from 3.5 million cases in humans every year to fourteen.
Carter noted that “this disease is not eliminated with medicine. It’s eliminated…by neighbors talking to neighbors about how to collect water in the poorest and most marginalized villages in the world. And those neighbors truly were my grandfather’s partners for the past forty years [and have] demonstrated their own power to change their world.” When Jimmy Carter “saw a tiny 600-person village that everybody else thinks of as poor, he recognized it. That’s where he was from. That’s who he was.” He saw it as “a place to find partnership and power and a place to carry out that commandment to love your neighbor as yourself. Essentially, he eradicated a disease with love and respect. He waged peace with love and respect. He led this nation with love and respect.”
President Joe Biden, who was the first senator to endorse Carter’s run for president in 1976, also gave a eulogy today. In what appeared to be a reflection on the incoming president in the audience, who for years has mocked Carter as the worst president in history, Biden focused on what he called Carter’s “enduring attribute: character, character, character.” And, Biden said, quoting the famous saying from ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus: “Character…is destiny,” both in our lives and in the life of the nation.
Carter taught him, Biden said, that “strength of character is more than title or the power we hold. It’s the strength to understand that everyone should be treated with dignity, respect. That everyone, and I mean everyone, deserves an even shot. Not a guarantee, but just a shot…. [W]e have an obligation to give hate no safe harbor, and to stand up to what my dad used to say is the greatest sin of all: the abuse of power.”
Character, Biden said, is not about being perfect, for none of us are perfect. It’s about “asking ourselves: Are we striving to do…the right things?… What are the values that animate our spirit? To operate from fear or hope, ego or generosity? Do we show grace? Do we keep the faith when it’s most tested?”
Biden noted that Carter lived a faith that commanded its adherents to love their neighbors. He also noted that such a commandment is hard to follow, and that it requires action. It is, he said, the essence of the Gospel and many other faith traditions, and it is also “found in the very idea of America. Because the very journey of our nation is a walk of sheer faith. To do the work, to be the country we say we are, to be the country we say we want to be: a nation where all are created equal in the image of God and deserve to be treated equally throughout our lives.”
“We’ve never fully lived up to that idea of America,” Biden said, but thanks to patriots like Jimmy Carter, “[w]e’ve never walked away from it either.”
Carter was “[a] white Southern Baptist who led on civil rights. A decorated Navy veteran who brokered peace. A brilliant nuclear engineer who led on nuclear nonproliferation. A hard-working farmer who championed conservation and clean energy.” He “also established a model post-presidency by making a powerful difference as a private citizen in America,” Biden said, showing “us how character and faith start with ourselves and then flow to others.”
“At our best,” Biden said, “we share the better parts of ourselves: joy, solidarity, love, commitment. Not for reward, but in reverence for the incredible gift of life we’ve all been granted. To make every minute of our time here on Earth count.”
“That’s the definition of a good life,” Biden said. It was the life Jimmy Carter lived for 100 years: a “good life of purpose and meaning, of character driven by destiny and filled with the power of faith, hope, and love.”
Guatemalan Fashionista
January 8, 2025
Got a sweet text from Maya this evening. Now that the holidays are over and she and Peter are together again in Ann Arbor, she is opening the Christmas presents we sent home with Peter (at Thanksgiving!). She explained her plan to open one present each day (to savor each one?). There are four from us.
Seems as good a plan as any…
Tonight she opened the dress I bought for her last February when I was traveling in Guatemala (nearly a year ago!). About the dress, she said, “I know you said you were nervous about it, but I really love it. Fits well and I’m excited to wear it in the warm weather.”
It’ll be awhile. The high temp in Ann Arbor today is 28 degrees (low 9 degrees!) Snowing on Friday.
She wears it well!!
Pacific Palisades, Not Palos Verdes
January 7, 2025
I’ve been getting well-meaning welfare checks from a number of friends about today’s fire in Pacific Palisades — still raging tonight — thinking I grew up there and have family and friends who may be in harm’s way. It is a mixup people in both communities deal with a lot.
I really appreciate people’s concern! (But I grew up in Palos Verdes.)
For now, PV is fine, but PP is not. It’s horrible down there, and not limited to Pacific Palisades; fires are breaking out all over due to 1) the Santa Anas blowing up to 100 mph; 2) the heat that comes with that; 3) the fact it hasn’t rained in months down there and the vegetation is dry and serving as fuel.
I was planning to head down to LA the day after tomorrow to stay with Matt and Michael for 3 days and join them, Chris and Pam for a movie screening (of all things!)… but I will be rethinking this plan.
Here’s a picture Chris took this late afternoon. He’s standing on a cliff in Palos Verdes, looking across the bay at Pacific Palisades…

A Good Run!
January 6, 2025
Twenty twenty four was notable for a lot of things. But this one stands out:
After saying goodbye to Peter a year ago on January 5 (following a two-week visit over the holidays), we saw him in April (our annual spring visit to Ann Arbor); May (end of the same trip); July (John Muir Trail); August (Dolomites trip); September (end of the same trip, plus our annual fall visit to Ann Arbor); October (a Davis wedding); November (Thanksgiving); December (Christmas); January 2025 (end of the same trip). That’s a Peter sighting in 9 of 12 months. My kind of year!
This is a hard act to follow, but hoping twenty twenty five will give it a shot.
Took Peter to the airport today.. and he flew back to Ann Arbor, barely missing a massive storm that was paralyzing a significant swath of our country. Got word tonight that he made it home safely. I can relax now, but I’m still really down. It may be a few months before we’ll see him and Maya.
Here’re a couple photos I snuck in late last night.. it is soooo nice to share space with our boy.


We Go Way Back
January 5, 2025
We’ve been family friends with the Cavins-O’Hanleighs for over 25 years. It felt great to get us all together this afternoon. There’s a new addition to the gang: Justin, who will be the father of Will who Kalea will give birth to in a couple of months. How about that!

Here we were in Yosemite a winter long ago, pre-Kalea (who just turned 21 last week!):

And just because…







And today’s shot…

PV Nostalgia
January 4, 2025
A couple months ago, I joined Derrick and Gayna (Lamb-) Bang for their 3x/year lunch with David Calkins (and his wife Nancy) in Williams. Mr. Calkins was my favorite math teacher and I hadn’t seen him in over 50 years. Derrick was a year ahead of me at Palos Verdes High School. He also had Mr. Calkins for at least one math class and had become his teaching assistant. Derrick and Mr. Calkins got to know each other because David was the faculty advisor to the bridge club. A lifelong friendship was born.
Mr. Calkins was considered a very cool teacher back in the day… erudite, rigorous… knew his stuff and demanded a lot of his students. I thrived in his class. He’s still very erudite! I always loved math, but Mr. Calkins was probably the teacher most responsible for my applying to colleges as a math major. (I lasted one year as a math major before switching to econ and then undecided. I ultimately graduated with a degree in PE. Lol.)
Back to our lunch…
Here are a couple pictures from that day… me, Nancy, Mr. Calkins himself (!), Derrick and Gayna.

We ate at Grazella’s (a fantastic deli), which has a lot of dead animals on the wall. It’s worth noting, there was a “State of Jefferson” sign across the street from the restaurant. Only one hour from Davis, but a world away.


I kinda treasure this photo.

These are from my high school yearbook:


I learned a lot about David at this (too short) lunch, including: he was great friends with Coach Kelly! Joe Kelly was another favorite high school teacher of mine. Joe taught english, and was also a football coach. David and Joe were friends then and remained friends long past their retirements. They still correspond. Joe now lives up in Washington and is also in his 80s.
Lordy.
Derrick passed along Joe’s email address and Joe and I have exchanged numerous emails since November. He remembers me (he said, even convincingly), as he followed all the school sports programs, including (especially) girl’s track. He and Rod Flagler (also in the english department) used to serve as timers at our home meets and he recalled our successes at big invitationals and State meets. He remembered how exceptional our team was. I was thrilled (beyond thrilled) to hear this. He also recalled some of the other girls who were standout athletes in my class (like Kris, Marta and Brenda).. which, 50+ years — and probably thousands of students — later, is absolutely remarkable. He said the females athletes in my class were among the best ever at PVHS.
In fact….. here’s an excerpt from one of the emails:
Occasionally I get a great surprise. Your email is one of them! Thank you for taking the time to write and fill me in. I can truthfully say I absolutely remember you, believe it or not! And one of the reasons is that when you were running track, Rod Flagler and I used to time some of the meets when I could sneak away from football practice to help out. Yup, you guys really had some good track teams. I even worked the CIF track meets most years, and had the extreme pleasure of watching a young Jim Spillane long jump 24’ 10” at Arcadia, unheard of at the time. And yes, I remember English as well.
You really were a “jock” before there were many quality female athletes at the high school level, and I so much enjoyed watching the women play.
How about THAT!!
Here’s Joe, who I had for Comp C:


I’ll always, ALWAYS, be grateful for that english class, because he required us to keep a daily journal (which he collected, read, and commented upon), which led me to a lifelong practice of journal writing, which led me to…. BLOGGING. Huzzah!
Joe sent me a more recent picture:

He aged well.
Finally…. as I bask in 70s nostalgia… here is a picture of our beautiful high school… and the track where I spent my glory-est of days.

As Seen on the Interwebs
January 3, 2025
A few things that caught my eye….
First, US Surgeon General Vivek Murthy came out with this stunner today. We saw it coming a few months ago — and I have actually reduced the amount of wine I drink in a week, say — but this explicit link to cancer is not fun news. For comparison, I’d like to see the cancer risk at zero drinks per week.. or something less than 1 drink per week. I’d also like to understand the cumulative impact over a lifetime. Sure this’ll be coming up a lot in the days/weeks/months to come. Stay tuned.

Given the many, many conversations we’ve had with Peter in the past few months about his post PhD choices, I thought this was apropos (and funny, not funny)!

I do love optical illusions. In this first one, the two trees are the same color (I love that!)…

And in this second one, all the columns are parallel (really! get out your straight edge).

Finally, I love this graphic artist (Barbara Galinska). I’ve posted her work before because I think it’s so clever. And, of course, the message is lovely.

The Holidays in a Few Pics
January 2, 2025
Well… as I begin blogging 2025, I have to fess up that I missed a LOT of 2024. It was my intention to backfill all of my missed blogs. I just hated that I missed so many days and fully intended to right that wrong. But as the year wore on and the missed days piled up, I realized backfilling was an increasingly daunting task and was probably never going to happen.
So, I am accepting that 2024 will remain an under-documented year and, in the interest of looking forward and not behind, I am NOT going to spend a single second stressing about that.
For the record, I do plan to do a Guatemala travel blog thing and an Italy-Dolomites-Germany travel blog thing, because I do want a record, and I especially want to enjoy those memories. I may also, from time to time, reach back into 2024 and write about some of the notable goings on, like some of the political stuff, and/or some family milestones…
With that in mind, how about a few photos from the holidays.. an easy place to start!
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On the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, folks started to arrive in Davis.. Chris and Pam, Matt, Betsy (for just an overnight on her way to Karen’s), Peter and Maya (who will arrive later this night)…

A lot of catch-up conversation ensued…


On Wednesday, we celebrated Chris’s 65th birthday..

Pam made wonderful lasagna, and I made a spice cake that was amazing..



Thanksgiving day, Peter and Maya were assigned corn bread stuffing — Kamala Harris’s recipe (remember her?). It was beautifully made, but we all agreed we prefer traditional bread stuffing. (Other assignments: turkey and gravy: Jim; mashed potatoes: Matt; sweet potatoes: Pam; green beans, cranberry sauce, pecan pie, Harvard beets: Kari; other pies: Janet.)

Pam also took charge of appetizers again…

We played a bunch of poker while consuming those appetizers..

Here’re a couple of our TG day gang…


We managed some Zoom connections with family far away…one call with Jay and Saythong in Thailand, another call with Aunt Joy in Pleasanton and Heidi in the desert…


Day after hanging out…

Peter’s guitar playing has gotten really really good. Such a joy to hear him play and sing. Maya and Peter do a lot of singing & playing together.

Chris and Pam took off Saturday morning, and the rest of us headed first to Putah Creek Cafe in Winters for breakfast with the John Frames…

Then wended our way over the mountain to Napa/Sonoma for some wine tasting at BR Cohn, and dinner at Mustards Grill.


It was really pretty in Napa in the final days of fall…



And some holiday seasonal flora, Davis style (our front porch Japanese Maple and the colors at Putah Creek)


A couple shots around the house getting ready for Christmas…


A new thing I baked this year… a goat cheese/pesto/parmesan puff pastry Christmas tree, this was for a Christmas gathering with our hiking buds — Ricker, Susan, Heidi (Jimmy J got Covid)







Annual favorite holiday concert — Home for the Holidays…front row, always!


A fantastic holiday neighborhood open house at the Slabach’s. Holy cow they can entertain… this was one of numerous tables loaded with stuff Lisa had made. Ted made a fabulous eggnog martini.

Baking tasks… this year cheese crackers, butterballs and a new almond/walnut brittle with chocolate.. fantastic all.


Christmas Eve was so mellow.. the three of us and Janet for a cranberry pork tenderloin, roasted sweet potatoes and salad.. and plenty of tasty Christmas gifts for dessert.

Added some new ornaments to the tree this year.. photos on acrylic.. fun!


This was a Christmas day surprise… and this is us hearing the news.. that Chris and Pam got engaged!

And those were some of the highlights from Thanksgiving and Christmas in 2024.
